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23 Women Show Us the Horrible and Depressing Spaces They Pump In

"I pump in a storage and server room that is over 80 degrees and loud."

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All week long ELLE.com is looking at the issues surrounding pumping.

Some lucky—but far too few—new, working mothers have employers that go the extra mile when it comes to lactation rooms. These pumping palaces give a whole new meaning to the term "fantasy suite." But the majority of women (and a few transgender men!) who pump at work do so in far less glamorous conditions. I asked my own Facebook community and working parents on a number of online support groups to share photos of their less-than-perfect lactation rooms. Many of these lactation spaces meet the letter of the law (which varies from state to state)—a private room with a locking door is pretty much all that's required—but they're cramped, often dirty, and not very conducive to letdown of milk. Some of these pictures represent actual violations of the law: non-private, non-locking spaces, sometimes in bathrooms. It's a testament to the will and ingenuity of working parents—and to battery packs, nursing covers, shower curtains, and other hacks—that we make these spaces work.

Here are just a few examples of the rooms working mothers have to pump in—from the spare and unglamorous to downright illegal. We invite you to tweet us your own @ELLEmagazine using the hashtag #fromwhereipump.

Lorraine, ER nurse

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This is who I sit next to when I have to pump in an old storage closet.

April, retail

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I lose valuable pumping time to move all those tables so I can reach a plug.

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Arianna, financial services

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The supply closet. Not terrible, only walked in on twice. BUT...the light switch is on the outside, so I am always afraid I'll be in the dark. I keep the light on my pump on, just in case.

Ashley, marketing

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Breaker room. Full of cords and wires. Yuck! That's a battery backup for a server sitting next to my pump. I taped up a few pictures of my son to help but as you can see, it didn't do much good! Oh, also, no A/C and it is hot hot hot in there!

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Barbara, sonographer

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This is where I pump. A shared office. I sit behind the person who this office belongs to. I've spilt my milk before because of the small surface to the right. I'm pretty sure where I pump is against the law.

Elizabeth, retail sales

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I pump in a storage and server room that is over 80 degrees and loud. I can't hear myself think and sometimes get nauseous from the heat while pumping. I have been told by management I can use a lady's office space but I would have to kick her and the guy that's in there out the multiple times a day then rush and pump while they wait...I need more time that that, so this is where I am.

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Carmen, sales

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I pump next to brooms and a Swiffer mop. Along with filing cabinets and computer/phone servers/hubs humming along. Thank goodness for hands free pumping bustier.

Carmen, sales

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I use a chair to hold my supplies while I prop the chair I sit in against the door so no one comes in (I have a sign on the door, too).

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Twila, physical therapist

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To my left: mirrored windows (so I couldn't turn on the light or people would be able to see in from the outside). To my right: stacked washer and dryer. Behind me: plastic grinder thing for custom orthotics. This is also the catch-all room for the clinic.

Cortenay, retail

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This is my "table" in the server room.

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Dawn, nurse

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This may not look the worst but keep in mind that it's two chairs, two curtains, and two desks for a 600-bed hospital. So you can imagine how many breastfeeding staff members use it per day. I've gotten down there to find a line out the door! I've also pumped while sitting on the sink (it's to the right, unseen) when the two stations are being used.

Erica, retail

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I pumped in my dirty office shared with five other male managers and an office that at least eight other managers in the building had keys to. It wasn't ideal and I occasionally had to pump in my HR manager's office that had a window!

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Rachel, creative manager

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This is in the main hallway where everyone can hear you and see you walk in there. I've seen how uncomfortable some people get when they realize where I'm going. And that table is barely big enough. I dumped a full bottle once. The stain is still on the wall.

Julie, retail

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Document room in a retail furniture store. It's the only place besides the bathroom that locks and has no camera.

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Kassy, gym employee

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Our gym has a tanning room…so this is where I pump.

Amanda, pharmacist

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I pump in the bathroom of the pharmacy.

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Mari, non-profit

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I work for a child welfare agency; this is the Observation Room of the Visitation Room. I have to clean and sort out the mess every time. Most times it gets very discouraging.

Meryl, Fortune 500 IT company

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I call this the Chair Of Shame. It just may be the most depressing room I've ever stepped foot in.

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Nicole, insurance

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Here's my pump room/mailroom. The room doesn't lock – I just put up a sign.

Tiffany, manager

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I use Freemies so I don't have to stop working. If I did, I'd end up staying late every day to finish my work. When I'm in the office (a huge open room with all our desks and it's the room you enter from the street), I pump right there at my desk. I would much prefer to take the time to relax and think about my daughter and do hand compressions while I pump, but I don't want to miss any evening time with my daughter and my husband.

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